Sorry, Rick, I think you know the answer to your question....
"I'm confused, I'm a man, I'm a fool? "
Love sometimes turns off the brain.
This is odd. You write that before the meeting, she demanded access to Skype. Computer was. And after the meeting, her computer broke down? And the smartphone must be broken, too? Now video chat is available on any smartphone. And the money was needed for the computer, and the lady did not hurry to buy the for several months. She didn't want to see you after the meeting? After receiving the money she disappeared... and you accuse that you are interested in, when her receive the computer?
And you continue to believe in the possibility of a future between you?
Have you decided that your love is enough for two? Obviously, the lady has no feelings, but she likes to receive gifts from a man in love.