The computer was hinted at as being needed. i offered. I asked how much was needed last March, said $18,000 rubles. June I sent $350.00 U.S., told her it was for computer. She responded that Russia is very expensive, prices have gone up, now computer are $32,000.00 rubles. I send another $300.00 U.S. The computer type, needs, model were never discussed because I do not know what she needs in computer. Here is the money, go get it, done.
My accusations are 1) you had 4 months to select computer you say you need desperately. 2) you say we will do video chat after you get computer 3) I ask every week for month of July " have picked out computer yet" " no" 4) when I ask, she says I am rude and only worry about money or video chat. 5) since I sent money she has disappeared for one week on medical emergency, has been to city twice shopping all day. 6 ) I am confused, I am a man, I am a fool? 7) now I do not ask about computer, money, or video chat. I give, I help, I love = I get berated, I get ignored, I get scolded for questioning.