I cannot judge this man and you because I do not know this man life and good changes you inspired him. About me: I have not to run like a trein ad change anything. I have only to invite a woman to live with me if woman is the right one, creating for her excellent level of life, the same I have now.
For doing that, I need before to try if woman is like a good software running in my hardware! In which way? Living for some periods with her, not weekends, but a lot more! I do not see other valis optiions here. You do not live in front of me or a 10 minuts by car from me and I cannot invite you at restorant and cinema sometimes to know you!
I consider a minimum meeting 10-15 days where I'm living! In this way we can unserstand something about eachother and all contest of life!