Ok, Tommaso, your comparison of a woman with the software is not bad. One man in this site, with whom I had correspondence for 8 months, compared a woman with a locomotive and a man with a train. Certainly, woman can encourage man for some important deeds and even can give the sense to a man's life but I already said that the same locomotive can lead the train into a dead end. Common goals, interests and priorities are crucial. I inspired that man (from Italy) to some good changes in his life but in the end we didn't meet personally - the relations stopped.
So, I wish your train to go through the tunnel of love...