David ,

What he wanted to pay and what gifts he bought for her , is his own free decision.
I'm not going to discuss that.

What I have asked him and he didn't answer is , if he asked her on the first or second , third or 4th date , what her ideas were or are , to have (another) child.

Since he says that he wants to have a family.As an adult , I guess that he is mature enough to verify certain issues , while he or they are in the process of getting to know each other better.

When after some while , you complain that it was not what you did expect , I ask you who is to blame for it ??

Did he not asked the really important questions ?How many dates did he had with her , before he took her on a holiday ?

Was there a reason to take her on a holiday , and buy her gifts , so quickly after some dates ?

To me it is not making any sense ........

Unless , of course , he wants to wave around with his wallet.

Men with this behaviour and complaining afterwards , do they really expect to get an answer from these women , that will praise his ego ?

I wonder .....