I do not feel that I am being harsh to this mans situation. I feel that the man was sincere and the girl was rewarded for time with this man. I feel both got much out this relationship trips to Belarus Sweden and macadonia. I feel that there was no problem with the man paying and if he wants to date a younger woman fine however he will need to support the basic travel and date costs. However if the girl wanted him to pay for apartments and give her gifts and didn't want family and serious relationship she should of made this clear to the man that it was only fun then not a problem however this guy was supporting the girl which is fine on a fun basis if that's understood but it seems to me that the girl was speaking to many men for many gifts which makes this situation unfair.