I agree as well. I think it is a matter of respect to learn the language of the woman and understand her life. It is not realistic to expect her to give up everything: culture, language, family, etc. to come and live in your country. Marriage is a merging of two people. The specifics of the women are not wiped out and replaced by the man's language, culture and family. They are added together. She must certainly learn the language of where she is going to live, but it is his responsibility to learn her language as well, if nothing else as a matter of fully accepting her for everything that she is. It has nothing to do with where you live. Love is not about being practical only.