Steve, I completely agree. In this forum, I read comments from honest ladies, openly and unabashedly saying, of course, they believe their man should be the leader! I believe men find that openness and trust extremely attractive. A strong and secure woman who does not need to be in charge? Do you know any women here in US who would dare tell others they want their husbands to lead and they will support him? Any ideas? Proper men don’t really want to lord over their wives; they just want to walk beside their wives and sometimes receive some cooperation. Sadly, not all men are worthy of that trust and faith.