Felt like SHARING the conversation don't take it personally please

In 9 out of the 10 cases we identified the prime reason to be😐 'Lack of depth in the relationship between the Husband & Wife' (for whatever reasons) They are NOT ONE but are two forces operating in two different directions (inspite of good intentions). Blame games, Egos & puerile expectations from each other (lack of maturity), Spending huge energies & time on relatives & people from outside (than inside families) Lack of creativity in creating good memories with their kids (& with each other), Busyness in Money chases / IMAGE growth (Random usually). or any else - e.g. greater love for Mobile phones & TVs when even at home. We inferred that besides LUCK; the other primary FACTOR for huge family success & happiness between 30 & 60 yrs is - 'The Husband & The Wife NEED TO BE ONE'. When they are ONE - then two forces (instead of one) solve things together leading to a higher probability of a big bang. Even MAINTENANCE MODE between the husband & wife is not real PROGRESS. It gets boring & mediocre usually. 'DEPTH' is the answer & the MAIN keyword. How creative you are to shed aside egos & create DEPTH? Parenting is a heroic job. And the best gift that super heroes give to their kids is 'the gift of loving their mother/ father' 😊 This is not a psycho-social study or any research but just a very strong gut check (w.r.t. Indian conditions). Felt like SHARING the conversation with you 😊