Our lousy liberal western ideals about sex has almost been offically declared as ''its now the womans choice'' definetly in uk, who are the prudest of the lot. The british woman attitude about the subject is horrific, it is no wonder that all the marriages fail. They now announce that boys in secondary school will have to LEARN just like that. Disgraceful!
Sex is a matter for each couple privatly.
We are all different and individual.
We all need sex in different amounts.
If its denied to us it causes problems even for the most behaved of us.
Ladies have a high need for romance, it probably equals mens need for sex overall, yet by all accounts they want romance without feeling the slightest need to return to their man his need.
The word for that is selfishness.
There is far more to say about this subject that would take hours to write.
Suffice to say that a couple who love and respect each other properly will meet the needs for the person they love by giving, hence the word love and likewise sacrifice when necessary knowing in love its done. Anything else is rubbish and a relationship to leave very quickly indeed.