I will say it again to make it more clear. I am willing to engage in dialog with someone who is open to discussing. I, however, consider that if the comment is a personal attack, contains offensive words and negative adjectives this person has already decided, judged and reached a verdict, so no dialog is possible. Many people feel entitled to judge my life and my choices and interpret my words and twist them in the most bizarre ways possible without willing to know me or my life. So why would I choose to honor these messages with a response? I respectfully decline.