Olga, I think that your conclusion is not quite right. Why are some (too many?) men thinking of the cost of the divorce, even before they found the bride? Probably because they experienced it (a lot of divorced men here) and because in some European countries, a divorce can ruin a man. So, is they (those men) already "survived" one divorce, they will be reluctant to head into another one. Besides, a lot of information can be read about SOME women who just want to release their "5-years visa project". My conclusion: as in life generally, there are special problems to overcome if woman/man is searching for a partner on dating sites. That requires PATIENCE and UNDERSTANDING from both sides..I guess))))