Hi Inessa, do you allow me to modify your question? sounds strange doesn't it? I wanted to stress exactly on that word "to allow". There is possibly a confusing premise there. Does a married woman need allowance to keep or not her contacts, acquaintances or friendships? Does she have to OBEY? Maybe this kind of logics can attract exactly those men which women actually don't like. Machos, kings and would-like-to-be-rulers... So, I would maybe ask with phrases like:"would you mind if your future wife...", or "what kind of contacts will you tolerate?". What do you think about those "natural" hierarchies between men and women? Are they real?