The concept of the "real man" is very hard to understand for people from West Europe and the USA. Why? Because that species, the real men are under pressure for a long time there. Natural behavior of boys at school is very often suppressed,adult men's flirting is always under the threat of possible prosecution for harrasment. So, no wonder, it is hard to understand. But Slavic women want that kind and respect only real men. You could read a lot of answers here, there are noticeably some differences concerning the characterization, but each and every woman here recognizes that real man when she meets him, no matter how different they think about him. If you ask how do I know, the answer is: I am a Slavic man..))))