before the meeting we video maybe once per week. I have gone through the stages my dear. Crazy love, obsession love, panic love, just love. I do care, I do love, I am still here. I have not given up. I have come to balance myself. I do not argue, fight, accuse. If she does not talk for 24 hours I do not ask or accuse. If she sends no photo, I do not ask why anymore. If she says she has not bought computer I do question why. I only do video when she calls on it. maybe once per month. But I am at the point where I think I will not do video any more. To me it is punishment. If I refuse to do it you can not hurt me by taking it away. Besides, I thought in real love all obstacles are to be overcome, understood, worked out?