Sorry man , but You so simply and primitive thinking about beauty and fashion . In Russia and the countries , where very often the climate is changing (from cold to heat) , daylight and rainfall , wearing the same kind of simple clothing is depressing . I think You better turn to the history of peoples, learn geography and mentality, again to assess the impact of feminism relations of European pairs ...
Victor your post confirms that believe in fairy tales not only women ... Not once discussed at the forum that men have VERY high requirements and criteria . If the Man claims , then He must be equal to this highest requirements .... and Vice versa !
Men like to external brightness and beauty , Beautiful woman with a man - the status of its success and achievements.
This controversial topic can be discussed endlessly... Need to examine the interesting world , show curiosity and not to dictate their rules...
Have only one opinion : You are the master of his own destiny , You have the choice of yourself friends, clothing, style and quality of life.