Dear all of you...I have entered here for the first time, and I'm disappointed with your comments (as well as some of you when lived such stories).
Of course I can only talk by myself, and for sure many men are hunters, but I think you have -as it is said where I live- "the pan in your hand"...you date him in your country, go to the airport to take him and spend the time as a tourist guide while you know better each other. I would like to have the same chance you have, but I must plan a travel, manage dates, get a visa and spend money. Of course I do it if i am interested. Most of us are mature people, but just as an example...I went one time to Kyiv to meet a woman; 3 hours after our meeting she asked me to buy an apartment for her in the center of the city...of course I spent the rest of days doing tourism, but alone. Maybe a little bit more of empathy would help. Good luck to all of you who want to find a nice man.