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Dear Valentina,
I don't believe in star signs so our misunderstanding is not connected to our birth date! 😊
I see that your age still have a influence in your thinking and reading! 😉 let me repeat for the last time - firstly, virtual is virtual and has to be virtual! DONT confuse virtual feelings with real ones!?! So, if i have chatted and had butterflies in my stomach that is NOT real. I am old enough to understand that... And if she cant come to me on my invitation, it doesn't mean its all lost! I have been saying all the time, that man should travel first which means that i will go and meet her just to make sure if she is really that sweet as in virtual world. If NOT, or i see something "suspicious" i will easy walk away. If still like her a lot, and i still see that her feelings for me a real, it will be MY decision if i will pay for her trip to me!? I WILL NOT do that if i have been expected or asked to do... I am sorry but i say now again - THERE IS NO RULE that man should pay at all!
You are still young and i hope you find who you are looking for. Also i hope you don't get hurt by your search, that if your feelings a real and not just an act to abuse man. 😉
I don't believe in star signs so our misunderstanding is not connected to our birth date! 😊
I see that your age still have a influence in your thinking and reading! 😉 let me repeat for the last time - firstly, virtual is virtual and has to be virtual! DONT confuse virtual feelings with real ones!?! So, if i have chatted and had butterflies in my stomach that is NOT real. I am old enough to understand that... And if she cant come to me on my invitation, it doesn't mean its all lost! I have been saying all the time, that man should travel first which means that i will go and meet her just to make sure if she is really that sweet as in virtual world. If NOT, or i see something "suspicious" i will easy walk away. If still like her a lot, and i still see that her feelings for me a real, it will be MY decision if i will pay for her trip to me!? I WILL NOT do that if i have been expected or asked to do... I am sorry but i say now again - THERE IS NO RULE that man should pay at all!
You are still young and i hope you find who you are looking for. Also i hope you don't get hurt by your search, that if your feelings a real and not just an act to abuse man. 😉