Totally agree. It`s better to take it easier.
But it`s really difficult to do for some people as this site is a practical place where people want to find their partners. Maybe they have lack of time, just are fed up with their previous search that wasn`t suceessful ... Sometimes I compare dating sites (just in order to joke) with a special part in a shop: you need something and you go exactly to a place where you can buy it. But when you return home without the thing you needed - you are very upset: you had a goal, you knew where to go, you went there and...nothing. If a person just spends time strolling around the store - no disappointments then. But people are here with a concrete goal, so they look at all the members rather agressive: does it match me or not?