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From one guy to another.
As far as I can tell you're either trolling to deliberately annoy people and get attention anyway you can. Or you're pissed off because the people you like don't like you.
If the former is true, go elsewhere, no one likes a troll.
If the latter is true take a break, go do something else till you can calm down. It's a frustrating tiresome process, we all know it and we all hate it. That's how most of us ended up here to start with. Putting yourself out there and being ignored or rejected sucks. If you're fed up, tired, frustrated, and/or angry leave it until you're ready to try again.
You're searching for a needle in a stack of needles. If they aren't interested in you, move on. There's no reason to take it personally or be offended. Also remember that they get rejected as often as you do. Otherwise they wouldn't be here.
When you do come back, read your profile as if it were a strangers.
Are you putting your best foot forward? Is this the way you want others to see you?
Then look at the people you're contacting. Are you sending messages to people half your age or women that are out of your league? If you're trying to punch above your weight you're not going to have any more success here than you would at home. Except maybe in Thailand or the Philippines where they care more about your wallet than your age.
PS: I recently saw an ad on another site from a woman looking for a man who was bald. It was a turn on for her. And look at all the famous actors that have deliberately shaved their heads in the last decade.
So there are lots of people out there that are bald and it's not a problem. Stop allowing it to be a problem for you. Maybe you don't like it but you're stuck with it. Learn how to accept it and find someone that can do the same.
As far as I can tell you're either trolling to deliberately annoy people and get attention anyway you can. Or you're pissed off because the people you like don't like you.
If the former is true, go elsewhere, no one likes a troll.
If the latter is true take a break, go do something else till you can calm down. It's a frustrating tiresome process, we all know it and we all hate it. That's how most of us ended up here to start with. Putting yourself out there and being ignored or rejected sucks. If you're fed up, tired, frustrated, and/or angry leave it until you're ready to try again.
You're searching for a needle in a stack of needles. If they aren't interested in you, move on. There's no reason to take it personally or be offended. Also remember that they get rejected as often as you do. Otherwise they wouldn't be here.
When you do come back, read your profile as if it were a strangers.
Are you putting your best foot forward? Is this the way you want others to see you?
Then look at the people you're contacting. Are you sending messages to people half your age or women that are out of your league? If you're trying to punch above your weight you're not going to have any more success here than you would at home. Except maybe in Thailand or the Philippines where they care more about your wallet than your age.
PS: I recently saw an ad on another site from a woman looking for a man who was bald. It was a turn on for her. And look at all the famous actors that have deliberately shaved their heads in the last decade.
So there are lots of people out there that are bald and it's not a problem. Stop allowing it to be a problem for you. Maybe you don't like it but you're stuck with it. Learn how to accept it and find someone that can do the same.