Well maybe some of your assumptions are right. I think men in internet look for women under 35, I am 45, so I am not even shown in their search results, others look for women who are 10-15-20 years younger (I wouldn't agree to large age difference), some others look for women living within their city or country or in the place where they plan to travel anyway, also some want woman without small kids or only with grown-up kids living separately (my son is 7). If to speak about this site, during last months there were 0 emails to me if not to count turkish men very rarely or men to whom I sent a wink 2 years ago and they replied with a smile sign only now, but I wouldn't reply after person got back to me after so long time without explaining a reason or excuse why he replied so late. So it has nothing to do with positive or negative attitude as David thinks, there are just no mails, that's it.

David wrote about a woman from this forum now living in USA whose opinion he values. Well I didn't meet men willing to take all expanses in moving a woman to USA. This woman David mentioned could pay for education of her grown-up daughter in USA and her own education in college or university in USA herself and she did so for herself and her daughter. So man could see that even if he pays for her ticket and supports her first 2 years, then she won't be a burden to him, as she will get her education and starts working. But I didn't meet men willing to pay for woman's education themselves. Most think that they can send a ticket and this should be enough for her to go, primitive thinking so to say. Well if I posessed the means like this now american woman did my opportunities of finding a husband would be wider as in this case it would be shared expenses so to say and many men would gladly agree to a woman who wants to share expenses and then can support herself so that man doesn't have to worry.