Dear Etienne.

I thank you for the answer.

"you cant always believe what you read" - Yes, I do not b e l i e v e what I read. I think. I read and t h i n k.
I read various sources of information, I watch TV warring parties and I think.
I seek information, to analyze, and find meaning.
If I like a man, I will learn his language, I will seek information about his country, his city. I will look for friends in social networks who live in his city. I will look for information about the political situation and the country's economy.I believe the men, but I will check all the information.I will not write letters to three years without Skype. I do not believe the photo, I do not believe to beautiful texts. I love to heart, have feelings, but I trust logic.
If one political party writes some words, and the opponents write other words, I'll look for a logical sense.

"she couldn't give any school name it was blocked by the site." - You did not give money to a woman. Do you give money to the site? Do you pay for the opportunity to write to women and to read the women letter? How much is the use of the site? Do you pay for a month or a letter?
I ask because I think Nadezhda worked on the site "a writer" and received a salary.
I could be wrong. Sorry. I guess different options to have the information to analyze the situation.

"and believe me to try and wait for a war to end can take time." - Etienne, I respect you for your expectation and desire to find Nadezda.If you will find her you are not afraid of war. I give you my word of honor that the Ukraine is safe and quiet. The problem is not in the war. Problem in a woman.
Lovely hotel there in Kiev and Kharkiv, Lviv and Dnieper.Work travel agents. Work banks and shops.