Thank you for the question. I would like to answer now.
No, on the one hand, Russian and Ukrainian women are not like that . They of course want to have financial stability, but money is not the center of their universe. But usually they realize a problem. They want to live with the man , they love. And in your case, it means that they need to know that there is a chance to move to you. And for this some money are needed. The visa of the bride or wife, some travelling to each other, maybe to move the child of the woman - all this needs some money.