Tom, I'm very sorry for you. It's a really unpleasant situation. But unfortunatelly, you don't want to listen to any advice. I don't think that the dirty information about you has been given simply by a jealous woman. You created a lot of negative comments and posts here about different nationalities, countries, cities, religious views. Most members of this site are tolerant enough not to comment on your negative creations... But there are some people whom the admins help not to react too hard on you by rejecting their comments for publication. As a result, someone found another place where he or she can do it.
Tommaso, please, stop boasting about your material side and critisizing other cultures. You are an intellectual person indeed - show you intellect and education.
With respect, Inessa