Tommaso, that first Italian wasn't a goat. He is a warm-hearted man, very kind and decent. If he had been a goat, I wouldn't have communicated to him so long.
As for the cultured Italians. I had such experience. He spoke good English, a very educated man, studied psychology in New York university. He specialises in management consulting and has some international companies. But he's very busy and spends his life on an airplane. It was the main reason why he divorsed with his ex-wife. He was on this site for only one month, then he deleted his profile. He offered me to stay friends but I refused because I'm searching for a man to live together. But it was a real pleasure to talk to him on skype, I've learned a lot of interesting things from him.