Hello, Tommaso! You compare a woman with the software - you install the software to your computer and see how it works, it can be slow, it can crash or even has a virus. I think if you are keeping to this experiment or theory, you'll never find the right software to your computer. Because nobody created such software specially to your PC. That's why you tried 11 or 12 and they didn't match. Woman is more flexible thing than the software. She's got feelings, emotions, intellect and the right to choose as well. Believe me, if a woman really loves you (I don't say uses you), she'll be able even to change some features of her character. So does the man - he will try to adapt if he wants to be with the woman he loves. You are searching a woman from different culture - and it's impossible to find the ready-made software because the differences are very deep. The only way is to find a common purpose, the golden mean, and develop relationships in this way. Both will be awarded in the future.