What's up brotha? I know you are moreso looking for a answer from one of these fine girls on here, but I want to shoot you a reply, so I will.

I been on here a week myself; very good question you have that I think many more also have. I think the right answer is, there is no right answer as far as intense, directness vs casual convo and which is a better approach? And when is it better? To answer your question more specifically though, I don't believe you've been doing anything wrong and I say this with knowledge from my own experience.

On here, I think it's important to remember this is somewhat of a big party, where lots of people are talking to lots of people, so it's easy to jump from one to another, stop talking for good, stop then start, and on and on. Add to that a general language barrier, time zone difference, some inherent uncertainty for everyone and it's easy for a straight road to lead to a cliff all of a sudden so to speak.

Keep at it bro! This is a GREAT site with lots of extra bells and whistle as well as, for us of course, a great abundance of beautiful, great girls as we both well know...there is no site better of it's kind and from what I can gather, this is the real deal and very legit.

Plug away my man...I wish you good luck~