I was mearly commenting on Gifts and some situations. I not try to do anything Alyonka. There's two sides to every story and forums are not the place to hold grudges. Everyone are adults on the site and if things with situations are so bad for someone and they make a mistake they not repeat the same mistake on there own free will. I'm personally not one to bemoan travel to Turkey or Belarus and if things don't work out what's life I not look to charictor assasinate the other person everyone has good and bad points and if I meet someone I speak on video chat phones or whatever and disclose any information required. I think we already covered the subject of U.K. Visa in other areas of site U.K. Government is very strick and a fiancée visa requires a income of £18,000 a year plus other guarantees which is something I personally will reach next year. After my children finish school a tourist visa is more simple and also from my understanding with some country's there is strict proof needed that the two people have had a relationship for at least two years. This will be checked via stamps in passport dates and other requirements Meetings and proof needs to be build over time not over 2 weeks