My worst dates have actually been women who buy gifts. It's a phycology of showing they value this man but many times it's a form of emotionally prostitution the woman wants man to believe she cares but has a motive to trap the man. A man should travel to meet the woman and provide the date only once the dates over then everything's based on emotion I will provide resterant money and local transport after that I see how the girl is with me and how genuine she is. When I find what I want then we get U.K. Visa for right woman