A man not buying cheese is extreemly greedy! For me its more important to invest in the right woman. And in the right way. Respect both ways is also important to me. And if we make a happy life for each other with the woman i meet this is also great. providing support in ways needed for true love is acceptable. Has i said this is my first post and I ask for advice only been here a month and your advice and any advice is much welcome. Thank you