Let's stop using this argument about the mentality, people are the same all over the world, we have the same basic feelings and everything else. Lately it has become very modern to write off to the "difference of mentality" someone's rudeness, stinginess,stupidity, arrogance, indifference etc, at that from both sides.
So "real man" is a real man everywhere, the man who will never betray, who treat the woman like an equal partner, who can make us happy every minute of our wonderful life together.