I think that if your woman cant accept ur relationships with another women, so nothing to do with it. You are different. And in future it will be always fighting. Do you need it? Better to find a woman who will share your interests.
I have relationships with the man. And from the very beginning he was very attentive to this point. He even didn’t want to get more contacts at skype, even business contacts. Because I can think that contacts in skype can be for private life. And he doesn’t want to hurt me . I never asked about it but it was his respect to me. If he starts to press me about things I don’t need I should cancel all . Because to be nervous near my man is the last thing I want..
From another side I never press him about any woman. I m glad to get acquainted with all his friends and among them there are women also. And I cant imagine how its possible not to talk by days! It’s a character already and not a good character! Do you need it in future life? Its not a way of solving problems. It looks like a behavior of a capricious girl not a woman. But you need a mother for your daughter isn’t it? So try to find more serious woman for it. Not a doll for beauty only.
Other words , for making family it needs to be adult, it needs to respect each other and try to please as much as possible.
In your couple I don’t see this desire, sorry. Everybody tries to pursue his own line of behavior without listening each other.
You know, its not about Russia and Russian type of women. Its about characters only. My man from Europe and he has the same point of view as me.