that's a totally different kind of fear,
as far as i heard European countries in particular are not that easy to stay in if you are not a citizen and divorced.
i'm traveling quite a bit for my job, for instance, and it's not really a secret that life in the EU is more convinient in terms of service and social securities in particular.
i think for quite a lot of people it's a motivator to look for an opportunity to move to a place when they expect life to be better. and i think it's good if it works out for them, i mean we all are looking for what's best for us, dont' we?
as for the money, as cynical as it may sound, there are prenups after all, why not to discuss it?
i mean, not every girl is a gold-digger and not every relashinships are doomed to end, but if that's what worries you, you should at least talk it through with each other, i think....