You're welcome Scot!
You are on the site only for a few days and have already met most problems we have here.
I agree in most points. It's necessary to use the skype, it gives me visual perception that is very important. Sometimes everything clears up when corresponding, and sometimes I need visual information. Contacting with one man I saw him trying not to meet my eyes when I asked him more details. Later in conversation my suspicion was confirmed.

"...I remember about those climates; the men who live there are already going to be able to have the money to find the woman they want or the men aren't generally going to be able to support a woman from another country."
I'm sure it can be said generally about all men, not only about those from warm countries. Or will you explain?

Wish you lucky searching.