Hi Tatyana
Yes i know that South Africa is not on anyone list of ideal countries to go but i think that it is mostly because South Africa are thought about the same as Africa as uncivilized, undeveloped and still a 3rd world country and we are not we have the same technology and development as Europe or America or any of those countries and to make the assumption about South Africa and Africa are the same is to think that Russia and India are the same. You asked "whether he is ready to do so for the sake of the woman he loved" i am ready to do whatever possibly in my capability for the women that i love. I was asked once if i am prepared to move to Russia and i said yes IF i can find a job there that can support a family.
I don’t really understand what you mean by "What should be the same unearthly force of attraction)). Really hard. . practically impossible" if you can tell me what your meaning there is please.