Hi Olga. Very I interesting topic after reading through the thread I must say and here are my votes, just kidding.

1. As many has said before me it's the cultural difference most seek I think. Many of you but not all (as I've experienced) act like and want to act like women according to our westerns "old" values. Pleas keep at it and be proud that you are "real" women!!

2. This is perhaps the tricky part. This I what I would like to. I want to know as much as possible about my partner and she about me. Try each other out, do you share views on different subjects include the private once to. Explore each other us much as possible and be honest with each other doing it. Hopefully this can save some grief if it doesn't work out or you find the chemistry, the same wavelength is there between you.

3. Well I'd like to this on "neutral grounds" somewhere non of you been before, no one has to lose face or anything like that. Exploring the place together, explore each other and see how you "work" together over a long weekend.

4. I think we all have some basic criterias, some prefer blonds others brunets and so on. Appearance has some part in it, your status some to, interests, preferences and to some degree the pictures them self (are they taken on a million $ yacht) but perhaps what's not there is interesting to. So in other words it's the total "picture" that decideds if its a go or no go.

There you have it, hope it can shed more light on the topic. Now I would like to challenge you woman to answer the same four questions to us wondering and curious men 😐 All the best to you all.