Natalja thanks! What you have said also helps me to understand a little better, I get the feeling that there is a little cultural difference and that over here we would be inclined to think that if all the photos of are of a woman in attractive clothes and looking fabulous in the best settings then we would suspect that they are ‘too good to be true’ it is why I said in my original post that sometimes some nice but normal photos of everyday activities helps show a person for what they are.