Hi well yes i know your water mixing taps we also have these in England too,Dont forget i have been to your country once and will return with luck in Feb,Well you hit two things first your friend came to England and go married then left her English man,She is lucky she can stay the English government are trying to stop women coming here and doing this(usually called a meal ticket)and are looking in to ways to send them home,And that is why visas to England are getting harder to get,It also is going to make it much harder to bring my wife here when i find her,What i wrote is very true and many English think our doors should be closed as our taxes go up all the time,Soon i think there will be a rebellion,I see by what you write you like poles,Take care and have a great Christmas,Rob