Jeffrey, everything has to happen in time. Marriage. Birth of children. I think you missed this time and there was only a dream. If the first marriage had no children, may your destiny be useful for the education and attention to other people's children.
Having children at your age is already risky. According to medical reasons, according to financial risks.And also the time when most of the difference in years between the child and the parent does not give understanding.
To give birth to a child is not a problem. That is to grow, to give him an education, to wait for the grandchildren - is a long process. Do you think you have the time?
I hope you will understand me.
Good luck!