Hello Doug, Forgive the expression '' no fool like an old fool''...... Women in the dating website are always looking for the best that can suit them in respect of finding a man that can make them feel financially secured. They come to site holding the fishing rod hoping to catch the man of their dreams which I do not blame them for this. They try to keep as many fish as possible then they will chose the best out of the bucket. This is how it works here- Tanya kept you in the bucket among others but she finally selected a different man- did you get my drift ?