it is not the fact that she met other men before me. No. It is the fact that she lied about it. She had traveled abroad to visit these men. Lived with them for a few weeks and then decided against starting a relationship with either of them.
From the moment I met her, she denied ever meeting with a man she met from this site. I did not use this site whilst seeing her, I have only come back to ask for advice.
The past is the past, I agree. But I hate lies and deceit. If she can tell lies whilst looking me in the eye, how can I believe anything she tells me?