1. Act arrogant.
2. Make a negative comment. For example, "why do you talk so much? Do you have an off button?"
3. Hold on to your wallet
4. Act arrogant.
5. Make another negative comment.
6. Seriously, don't buy ANYTHING. EVER. Create drama, show glimpses of being nice or sweet but for the most part, treat them poorly.

American women are competitive. You have to make them compete for you. Most American women are narcissist. Remember, most grew up not having to respect or even appreciate men. As a result, they are miserable and unknowingly in search for someone to take control. What that means is complicated, you really do have to educate yourself.

After you begin to read American women dating profiles, I suspect you will change your mind. I guess it depends on what you are looking for... You should really do your research though. Some key google search terms are; "PUA", "POF", "Cupid, dating" that should take you down the rabbit hole...

understand, american women, even not attractive or pleasant to be with, have men always around them... They are unlikely to pursue a relationship with someone overseas. However, if you came to the states you could would be successful if you really wanted to be. As a foreigner, you would be different so you would have an advantage. The US has the highest divorce rate in the world and women initiate 75% of divorces. You really should do research...

If you tell me more about what you are looking for I could direct you to regions of the country in which you could find the type of girl you are looking for.