No. You are more rapid to buy a multivisa for your woman and ticket to her. Romantic? Its not romantic to meet an always unknown man in your country! He might be a criminal. a mafious, anyone! And then, doing what? Do you want to emigrate? Ok, let's go and see to know! It's absurd what you wrote!
We are not at roman era when soldiers kidnapped women in their territorries! I I know a man and I want to live in his country and I'm intelligent, first I go to know him in his country! Maybe I woman dislake man life and country life and then? I lost only time in my country for a stupid and uneuseful "romantic" meeting! Romantic what? For sex?