You have to meet, normally not one but many here before to find the right one. I do not believe the first you will meet will be the right one. You should be too lucky!!
So do not demonize those makes a lot of meetings! More meetings you make and more you have the best chances to choose well. It's like you find a pair of shoes! Have you try one or many before to buy?
Do not listen stupid persons demonize you if you meet 10 men! They do not understand anything! Believe me! I have experience about! To meet someone does not mean to have intimities with all!
I met 11 in three years and then? Am I a woman collector? NOOOOO!!!