I believe that a person can find a good partner in many places. The important thing is to clearly say who we are, in order that the people who look at us can have a true picture of who we are. For many years I felt sad that women appeared to ignore me. I now realize that they DID notice me but that I was not yet fully formed as a good man. I have learned that the important thing is to be what we want to be and then people will notice us.