When people registered to this site they had different purposes not only serious relationship. Many men were afraid this serious relationship and more afraid purposeful women. I just wanted to say that I consider that woman needs to be active but not annoying, not shows man very big interest to him. I wanted to say that many women here very want abroad and don't appreciate theirself. And what the result? I saw our news, I am an active member of many immigrant sites, I had conversation with many people from Russian community here. People arrived to USA but couldn't adapt, hate USA and Americans, try to make small Russia here ....and came back home. The main point of my story is the every woman firstly needs to respect and appreciate herself and gotcha if she can adapt to new life, new mentality, new order and changes herself or no and respects person which whom she has conversation in Internet and understands difference between cultures, history and world view.