I meant not only American youth. I had dates with our immigrants here, too , not only Americans. Firstly I am feeling myself very old near them, as their Mom. They are full life and energy. As for me I began to feel myself very-very tired.. Secondly, they don't understand that "no"means"no". We have conversation but in this time we stay in different measurements. They can't understand me . Their problems and interests are boring for me. Thirdly, we look for and wait different impressions from sex. I don't want to describe it here. Shortly, they wait something exiting and intensive , I prefer to relax. And the last, they are usually very annoying. I had only one date and after this I said "bye. You are not interesting for me". But they don't want to gotcha it and continue to call me.