Since you asked. To me it says 3 things...you're negative...you're judgmental...you need to be right. The whole tone of this thread is negative and judgmental, you're essentially saying prove yourself worthy first before you can have any expectations but the world has all types, guys who like asian indian black whatever girls, skinny girls who like fat guys, guys who like guys, girls who like both and on and on and on, there is no one recipe...we can all desire what we want and others are free to like us or not...stop getting hung up on what other people want or what you think they deserve, that isn't your call. Not once did you mention what he would be bringing to the table either, just all his flaws, nobody is without redeeming traits. As for needing to be right, that this is a thread says it all, you said he wanted to hear your opinion so why not leave it there? he must not have gotten the message that you wanted him to get so you brought it here to get validation... you wanted to be told you're right...to what end? Look I don't know you, but this is what you're presenting to people who don't know you and if this is indicative of how you talk in person then I'm just telling you it is off putting to a guy as we know those type of traits turn on us when the new toy smell has worn off of us.