thank you Yuliya, I fear you may be one of the exceptions and not the rule. Appearance isn't everything but it is usually something...how much for each varies...have you always felt this way, when you were in your 20s were you more superficial or have you always felt this way...not to say you're old you're not or I am too and i refuse to accept that haha but it seems that as people age the more value they place elsewhere and are willing to accept more "flaws" I wish I could say I was one of those people but I still place a pretty high value on the aesthetic, I have to admit that my career choice plays into that, I am around some of the most beautiful people in the world on a daily basis, it does affect how you see people and I wish it didn't.