Yes... One should not just talk about yourself like you were selfish, bragging or being arrogant but I left plenty of space for her to come with her opinions on the topics I tried to talk about. And of course it is important to find topics to talk about where both have an interest. Like I said I also did NOT "interrogate" her with touchy questions but tried to give her space and make her talk about what she would think would be interesting for me to hear and talk about.